About Em

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Em Guevara is the Empowerment and Self-love Coach for smart, high-achieving women who want to date like queens, break their ineffective dating patterns, attract quality men, and live their best lives.

She helps single women like you to rid yourselves of unnecessary dating pain, drama and heartbreak; banish your emotional baggage and limiting beliefs in dating and love; and easily recognize high value men and lose interest in the wrong types—all for fun, successful dating. 

Her 3-month 1:1 Bespoke Coaching Program for Dating Queens and her 12-week Date Like a Queen Group Coaching Program employ the powerful combination of her empowered dating strategy and her woman-centered coaching process. 

Em’s empowered dating strategy is based on her transformative 10 Dating Queen Essentials framework. Her woman-centered coaching process is based on a three-part breakthrough formula for creating extraordinary and sustainable results. 

Em is a Certified Professional Coach of FWI (Fowler Wainwright International Institute of Professional Coaching), and completed International Coaching Federation (ICF)-accredited coaching training. She completed the Fearless Living Training Program of Fearless Living Institute, and trained with The Institute for Woman-Centered Coaching, Training & Leadership. She holds certifications in Group Life Coaching, Life Purpose Coaching, and Relationship Workshop Facilitation from Transformation Services.

Em is a lifestyle journalist turned life coach, and a book author. She’s a fun-loving ambivert who dances a mean samba and salsa, enjoys performing improv, and loves her dogs.

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Hi! I’m the real Em!

Time to let my hair down and talk to you in the first person. 

Real talk: Even though I play a cool and inspiring person on the internet, I’m also a real person and someone who has definitely had a dotted dating history, filled with ups and downs, and too many heartbreaks for my own good. No matter, it has turned me into the dating expert now keen on giving you the short-cut to dating ease and success! 

Here’s my story in a nutshell…

I have had one too many relationships and dating experiences that heartbreakingly did not work out. And I have gotten very frustrated with dating countless men who did not meet my criteria for a life-long partner. I enjoy career success, but I still wish for a soulmate to come home to and share the rest of my life with. I have put myself out there, been vulnerable and open, gotten hurt and disillusioned, and learned from study and experience what works and what does not. After all the hits and misses, and a lot of pain and hard work, I have finally broken my ineffective dating patterns and now truly enjoying the dating process, consistently attracting quality men, and living my best life, like a queen! 

This is why I am here to help you.  

My practice is a consolidation of my personal dating lessons and extensive coaching studies, and I am passionate about sharing them with you! My mission is to change the world by empowering women daters through a combination of my transformative 10 Dating Queen Essentials and my woman-centered coaching process that ensures lasting transformation. I will help you break your ineffective dating patterns so that you can live your best life while on your way to finding a partner that suits you. Let’s get this party started, Queen!

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